Thursday, July 9, 2020

I'm back!!!

Beautiful Body Crew, How are you?!!

It has been roughly five years since my last post to you and so much has happened on an inner and outer level. I have learned so much more about loving and caring for my beautiful body and am excited to share it all with you.



I want to bring you up to speed on a few things.

1) I have been selected as a competitor to be on the cover of 'Muscle and Fitness Hers' Magazine! Check out my profile page https://mshealthandfitness.com/2020/tuesday-may-thomas .

2) I just started a new Instagram account @BOOTYSCULPTRESS. It's brand new- If you're into working out, healthy living, a positive mindset, growing your booty, plus a dash of silly memery- please follow!!! Check it here https://www.instagram.com/bootysculptress/

3) I teach a kick butt 'BootySculpt Cl-ass' every Tuesday afternoon at 12PM pst via Zoom, by paypal donation. email me for more info here ->
tuesdaymaythomas@tuesdaymathomas.com

4) I've been to hell and back and want you to know, no matter what life hits you with- you can survive and learn to thrive from it all.

Some of you are aware of what I have been through in these past five years. It's been traumatic and deeply healing, to say the least. I stayed fit for some time, then it all went out the window when I started drinking wine EVERYDAY as a way to numb out my feelings (see below). I gained a bunch of weight and then in late 2018, I slowly got back into my fitness groove. 

Here is an excerpt from my Insta about it-

Life happens. Under grace, we survive. A brief outline of my booty/body story... 2013, I start working out and met the man of my dreams. We got engaged in 2014! In late 2015 my (then) fiancé attempted suicide and our world fell apart. This was the biggest life crisis I have ever experienced. I started drinking and stopped working out. We went to suicide support group meetings and had to start from scratch. Life was dark. I constantly thought I would come home and find my beloved had taken his life.

We decided to go through with the marriage the following year and performed our own ceremony out in nature. By 2016 I was doing my best to exercise, but I had become addicted to drinking wine. I drank daily & it added pounds. I became lazy & depressed.

Later that year my 'husband' had an emotional breakthrough & disclosed to me the reason he attempted suicide back in 2015 was that he's really 'a woman' in a man's body.

We started going to meetings for trans women and their partners. We even went to weekly therapy sessions at the local lgbtq center. I am grateful for those sessions. We did our best to work through it all and heal our lives.

By mid-2017, we knew the relationship had run its course. We said goodbye and thankfully are still friends.

I had gained 35 lbs, & continued drinking wine daily until late 2018. Since then, I've been on a focused path of healing and renewal...and have finally come full circle!
And you can do it too. Life can throw you into a serious crisis without any warning.
But you are stronger than you know. You can heal. You can forgive yourself and others ...and be free to be you ♡Love, @bootysculptress




I look forward to seeing you on Instagram and sharing from my journey of healing, health, fitness, and growing a booty!
Lots of Love- and thanks for sticking around all of these years
xo
Tuesday