Showing posts with label diet. Show all posts
Showing posts with label diet. Show all posts

Friday, September 13, 2013

Obsessed with weighing yourself?


About a year ago, I realized my weight was running my life. I'd wake up and weigh myself right away. I'd have a morning BM and weigh myself afterwards. Following this, I'd go to the gym and weigh myself there before working out, and then again after working out. And because I was never sure if the scale at the gym was accurate, I'd weigh myself again upon returning home. The whole cycle would continue the following day. I was rarely happy with my body, and was constantly judging it by how much it weighed. If the number was higher than my 'norm', I would begin feeling heavy- even if it was only two-three pounds. If I appeared to have lost a couple of pounds, I was over the moon, and would literally feel lighter.




Consider the following questions and see if you can answer them honestly.

Are you obsessed with your weight? 

Do you have one, or more weighing scales in your house, and do you use them both daily? 

Do you get depressed when you've gained a couple pounds, and happy when you've lost a few? 

Does your weight govern how you see yourself and your body? 

Even if you wake up feeling positive about your body image, can the number on the scale change the way you perceive your body? 

If you answered yes to any of the above questions, then perhaps you can consider taking a break from the scales. I know, I know- it's a crazy idea, especially if you are hooked. But some addictions are good to break. Let me give you a bit of my back story. One year ago I started to take my body seriously. I began working out with a trainer and during the winter of 2012,  I completed a fast of almost forty days. It was the third winter-time fast in a row of dramatic fasting I did. See my blog Confessions of a Spiritual Apprentice http://confessionsofaspiritualapprentice.blogspot.com/2012_10_01_archive.html 

Yes, I lost tons of weight, but I also lost a lot of muscle, muscle-tone and physical strength. I had laid off of working out with my trainer because I had no energy. At forty years old, my skin was sagging and loose fitting. With so much weight loss, yes- my clothes did fit better on my body. But when I took them off, I hated my weak and lifeless form. 

I struggled with this for many months. I slowly gained weight back and my addiction to 'checking in' with the scales began. I knew my daily diet would surely cause me to gain weight back. I got into working with my trainer again, and watched what I was eating. I decided tightening my skin, and building muscle tone would be my focus. The more I worked out, the more I became impatient about seeing physical results. My body didn't seem to be changing soon enough for me, so I relied on the weighing scale to tell me how to feel. 

Over many months, I started to see results. My shape started finding a new form. I was finally seeing muscle tone and feeling stronger in new ways. I would weigh myself in hopes of weighing less. Some days I would drop a couple pounds- but some days my weight wouldn't budge at all. I have now realized a few things: 

1) Muscle weighs more than fat, so if you are loosing fat and building muscle, you may not see a significant shift in your weight. 
2) You can add up to three pounds over night- to your normal, or comfortable weight by eating a heavily salted meal. A lot of salt causes the body to hold more water, which equals more weight.
3) If I ate a large- (even healthy) meal, I would weigh more directly afterwards.
4) I would always weigh less after a health BM (bowel movement)

Your body weight fluctuates all the time. get used to it and put the scale away. If your mission is to purposely loose a lot of weight, please do so safely.. and then maybe put the scale away if you can.

After doing my internal work of re-patterning how I think about my body, and changing negative thoughts to positive ones. I stopped trying to loose more and more weight- and started to tighten and tone my body from where my body was naturally. I love to eat and my boyfriend is a cook, so there is no getting around starving myself. Besides, I want to enjoy a good quality of life with good food as a regular way of life. Don't you? 

Okay, heres the deal.. Rather than looking at your body, or weighing it to decide on how to feel about it- decide to pay more attention to how you feel in your clothing. You may be shaping up beautifully, but missing the boat if your eyes are glued to the numbers on the scale. You may have lost inches from all of the hard work you are doing, but if you don't take time to acknowledge it, you will be stuck relying on the numbers game. You are wearing a Beautiful Body- right now! Chances are, If you've been watching what you eat and working out... you have indeed shape shifted your form. So give yourself permission to embrace your body, applaud your discipline and be grateful for the body you  have. I know, sometimes we get off track and this can be a great excuse to be hard on ourselves. Do not let this ruin all the work you have done to this point. Pat yourself on the back, dust yourself off and get back into dance, cardio, bodysculpt- or boxing class! 

If your ok with not loosing a bunch of weight, but are interested in loosing inches... I highly recommend taking up yoga- besides creating a sleeker form, it will increase the balance and harmony of your mind/body/spirit. The more you do- the longer and leaner your body will become. 'Yoga strong' is a whole different type of physical strong that focuses on creating longer muscles by using your own body weight to play from. Here is one of my yoga videos below- watch and see if it is something you would enjoy. In closing, if you are indeed addicted to the scales, try- jut for one day, one week, one month, putting it out of sight. Tell your Beautiful Body how much you appreciate it and exhale deeply into letting go of your weight. Let it fluctuate-  maybe a little, maybe a lot.. you are human after all.
With Love,
Tuesday May Thomas

      Yoga Hip Opener Mini Flow with Tuesday May
   

I am not a certified nutritionist, doctor or therapist. 
Please consult your healthcare professional before participating in any
 lifestyle changes you may feel are questionable to your health. 
I am not responsible for any action you resume, You are- Make it pleasurable.
© Tuesday May Thomas 2013


Sunday, September 8, 2013

Power Affirmations

Here at I Love My Beautiful Body blog, your whole be-ing is acknowledged. Not just a body, you are your mind, emotions and spirit too. A beautiful body glows because of the illuminating inner thoughts and beliefs it 'runs' on. That's the secret! Just as a healthy diet and regular exercise are important parts of taking care of ourselves, so too are the diet of thoughts and words we think about ourselves and our lives.

Do you run off junk food thoughts? Do your thoughts about yourself and your life starve you of real sustenance? Do their nutritional value serve your well being over the long term? Or do they slowly leak toxins into the landscape of your reality; body, mind and soul? Think of all the inner 'recordings' that play over and over within yourself. Some have been playing for so long, we begin to belive them as truth. For example, "I'll never loose weight." "Nobody will ever love me." "I am unattractive." If limiting thoughts are allowed to run your life, they will slowly drain you of personal power and self love.  You will find your energy zapped. Reality will show up just as you personally prophesized- it to be. Be it positive, not so positive- or down right difficult.

Inner recordings are connected to the muscles of negative and positive thinking. Which muscle is stronger in you? The positive one, or the negative one? Is it easier to think positive thoughts about your job than your body image? Is it harder to think positive thoughts about your relationships, and easier to think positive about your body image? We are all different, and have different needs at different times. You may ask; "How can I begin to make positive changes in all aspects of my life?" My answer- "Power Affirmations." Learn conscious manifestation and transformation through your thoughts and words.

I have used conscious positive thinking for many years. It continues to help shape shift my life; mind, body and soul. While negative thoughts can lurk and even prove challenging to overcome, having a tool is key to transforming the old you (limiting thoughts & beliefs) into the new you- beautiful, powerful and unlimited.  The inner muscle of positive/negative thinking drives the thoughts you think about yourself. This in turn affects how you feel about yourself and this affects how you perform as you, or be (or not be) your Self.

Power Affirmations have helped me heal, make changes in life, and create new possibilities. Below is the first video in a series I created. May it to serve as a blueprint, from which you can create your own Power Affirmations.You can experience your Beautiful Body, Mind and Soul no matter what size, shape or age you are.

Love and Light,
Tuesday May



I am not a certified nutritionist, doctor or therapist. 
Please consult your healthcare professional before participating in any
 lifestyle changes you may feel are questionable to your health. 
I am not responsible for any action you resume. You are- Make it pleasurable.
© Tuesday May Thomas 2013

Sunday, September 1, 2013

My Daily Diet- What to Eat When Working Out

It can be tricky navigating what to eat when working out, or how to eat if trying to loose weight. While I'm not a big advocate of dropping a lot of weight quickly- there are some things I have discovered along the way that have helped me burn fat, drop pounds and keep them off, while stepping up the tightening and toning of my beautiful body!

I say I'm not a big advocate of quick and dramatic weight loss because I have done it over and over, only to gain back the weight and have to 'do' it all over again. Loving your body and changing your body into one you truly love and feel beautiful in, requires a lifestyle change- not just a ten day diet. While loosing weight or exercising is something you can 'do' as a quick fix to feeling better about yourself, or fitting into that dress or those jeans (guys read this blog too!).... Long term physical changes like loosing weight and keeping it off, and/or tightening and toning your physique requires changing the way you do things on a daily basis over the long term.

If you've been following this blog, you will know my view on growing a beautiful body. It is more than just how you look on the outside, it's what is going on- on the inside that is vital to maintaining a healthy and happy attitude. An uplifted attitude allows you to stay positive and keep self-love the priority. When that is in tact, it is easy to follow new lifestyle changes that can lead to your body growing and glowing in new and more beautiful ways. 

I remember dropping 60 pounds in 2000. I went from close to 200 pounds, to less than 140 pounds. Though my ribs were sticking out and my old jeans fell down my legs when I tried them on, I still saw the fat version of myself in the mirror and was haunted by the same negative thinking patterns of self-hate about my body. Because my inner thoughts and feelings were not matching the outside of my new physique, I later gained the weight back.

A positive attitude towards yourself will help you keep on track with workout plans. It will help you maintain a change in your daily eating habits that can naturally help your beautiful body shine through.... I promise!

Making changes that you can keep up with are important. We are all so diverse, and our bodies require different nutrients from one another. For example a meat eater may require a different diet from a vegetarian. I am not a certified nutritionist or a qualified personal trainer. What I am is a certified yoga and fitness instructor with a knack for acknowledging my body as a landscape of biodiversity, where I can experiment and be my own alchemist, and you can too. 

With regard to diet and alchemy- what you eat before and after exercising are vital to growing your beautiful body from the inside out. When you start experimenting, you will quickly notice changes in your energy and the results of your physical exercise will become more defined as you find what feels and works best for you. Daily restrictions and treats are important too. You don't want to blow all the hard work you do by eating foods that will keep the weight or fat on. But you also don't want to feel like you can never enjoy a treat ever again! You want to give yourself the correct amount of nutrients when working out, and eat correctly on the days you have off. Here is what works for me. If it speaks to you, try it on and see if some of my findings work for you too!

If you have been working out with little or no results, or if you hit plateau's too quickly, 
consider making these changes TODAY. 

Stop buying the following items at the supermarket. These foods are treats, not to be eaten on a daily or weekly basis. Trust me, if your a big carb eater, your body will dramatically change within two weeks by dropping the following items. (Unless you are doing serious body building and heavy weight lifting, then you may want to eat more carbs and proteins prior to working out- but for most of us who just want to loose weight for good, tighten and tone, sculpt and define a leaner body- getting off the carb train instantly changes how the body can metabolize the foods you eat from the exercise you do. When the following foods are not in your pantry, you will have the opportunity to become more creative with how you eat and that's the fun! See my goat cheese quesadilla recipe below- yummmmm!

STOP with the WHITE FOOD- these are treats to be eaten rarely, not daily. 
1.NO daily potatoes- only eat twice a month- if at all.
2.NO daily Bread. Sure, indulge in a white bread panini or sour dough sandwich once a month. And if your metabolism is really charged up, you can eat a simple open faced sandwich maybe once a week with one slice of quality Ezekiel bread.
3.Pasta-once a month ONLY.
4.Flour Tortillas- if you have to, it's a treat, but start choosing corn over flour.
5.White/Brown Rice. If your out eating, sometimes you have no choice. But if you do, choose Quinoa instead of rice. The one exception I make is for rice crackers- love them with hummus.

I used to eat 2 slices of toast with a bowl of cereal for brakfast. Then I would eat a sandwich (that's two more slices of bread) for lunch, and then maybe some kind of a four tortilla quesadilla or veggie pasta or rice dish for dinner. That is so much gluten, so many carbs and so much bread- bread- bread. Even though I worked out, my body had so many extra carbs to break down, it never had a chance to truly change it's physique or loose weight because it was over loaded. When these items were in my day to day diet, I also felt bloated constantly and had issues with constipation. Do you? That's when I discovered Acidophilus; it helps to replace good bacteria in the digestive system and helps to keep you regular too. Store it in a cool place like the fridge if possible. I use Trader Joe's basic brand and it works!
These days I eat pasta once a month as a treat. I almost never eat rice. I find substituting quinoa is a great alternative. As far as bread goes, when you do eat it, try Ezekiel bread available at Trader Joe's or your local health food store. It is made from sprouted grains and seeds and will help your gut move rather than stuffing it up. I have switched to corn tortillas, and as a treat, I eat potato chips or will have a dish with a little potato once in a while, maybe twice a month- but thats it! When I get my period all bets are off. You will see me eating cake and mac n cheese and a lot of dark chocolate! That is my 'once a month' indulgence time when treats are allowed into my daily diet for a few days in a row. See my blogpost entitled 'PERIOD'at http://ilovemybeautifulbody.blogspot.com/2013_06_30_archive.html


WORKOUT DAY This is very much like my non-workout day diet.
Morning- 8.30am
Mug of coffee; black no sweetener
Half large or whole small banana
1/4 cup mixed unsalted high quality nuts; walnuts, cashews, sunflower seeds- no peanuts

Pre Workout- 10am
Cup of Trader Joe's oatmeal with cranberries, plus a few more nuts for a little added protein.
Oatmeal is great prior to a workout because it is a slow burning carb, meaning your body can slowly burn the carbs off while giving you enough sustenance to work out for longer periods without feeling depleted or bloated. I can eat oatmeal at 10 am, start my work out at 10.30am and go til 1pm easily. If I am training longer, I will eat a healthy nut- based bar with a higher protein count half way through my work out or towards the last leg of it. Having some added protein prior to exercising is key (like adding nuts to oatmeal), so as you build muscle your body can use the protein you put in it, rather than taking it from the muscle you have already built to create more muscle. 


Post Workout
8-11oz Non-Soy Protein Shake (minimum 20 grams of protein per serving).
My choice brand; 'RAWFUSION'.
Save your big protein load for after your workout. Post workout muscle repair with a quality protein shake is the way to go. Take your shake with you to the gym and drink it directly afterwards, so you can help those muscles recover right away. You will feel your body absorb the nutrients. This will help you build lean muscle and give the body a rest before you eat a larger meal a little later. * I am allergic to soy in large quantities and break out in a rash when I have it too often. I used to take an all soy protein shake every day even on days I did not work out and was covered in patchy red bumps. It took a while to figure out what the cause was, but after a forty day trial of cutting the soy protein shake from my diet, my skin was restored. Now I use an non-soy all vegan based protein shake and recommend it for those who are sensitive to soy. I also found that the muscle I was building when using soy was much bulkier versus the longer and leaner look I am achieving with the non-soy vegan protein shake alternative. Too much soy can be hard for the body to digest, and can cause an upsurge of the hormone estrogen which can be harmful to women in larger doses (do your research).

Late afternoon- Early evening dinner
Goat Cheese Quesadilla's with half an avocado and huge salad and dressing.

Get used to eating your bigger meal earlier. When I eat my meal after working out, and after my protein shake, I consider it to be 'dinner', even if its at 4.30pm. Life is always changing and our schedules fluctuate constantly. It can be hard to regulate the timing of when you eat, yet the more you can eat a bigger meal earlier in the day, or evening-the quicker and more steady the results you will find. Depending on how hard I work out, or how tired/full of energy I am, sometimes I am hungry within an hour of having my protein shake, and sometimes I can go several hours before I am ready to eat a large meal.

SIMPLE RECIPE for GOAT CHEESE QUESADILLA'S
2 mini corn tortillas
couple slices of gouda goat cheese
heirloom or beefsteak tomato (my fav's- but substitute with what you have at home)
half avocado
fresh organic salad greens plus cucumber and cherry tomato

1.Prepare salad and 1/2 avo
2.Preheat mini corn tortillas. I do this on my gas stove old school style by flipping them over a flame before folding them into quesadillas. Let them brown a bit so they don't tear during folding.
3.Heat a large stainless steel pan to medium heat for a few minutes. Do not use oil. Dry pan only.
4.Prep your quesadilla's by placing cheese and tomato inside. Fold in half and place in heated pan. If the contents is falling out of your tortilla, use a toothpick to keep it under control. Cover pan, this will melt the cheese nicely. turn over once, after three-four minutes and cook for another two minutes or until melted nicely. Place on plate with salad and voila. Use your favorite dressing for salad, bless your food and enjoy! I let myself use any dressings I want, because I can be strict with other things, I let this one go. If you want to restrict calories with dressing, opt for a balsamic and olive oil.

Evening Snack ideas include
-Natural Popcorn watch the salt- too much salt in your diet will keep you holding water weight.
-A handful of corn tortilla chips with Salsa
-Half avocado filled with sunflower seeds
-Handful of rice crackers with hummus
-Bowl of Sesame Kale Sale (recipe coming soon)
-Yogurt sprinkled with a few dried cranberries or blueberries and sunflower seeds
-1or 2 stalks celery with a natural nut butter

General Daily Diet Do's 
According to my vegetarian and slightly vegan diet, I find protein in places other than meat.
-Daily fresh veggies, including dark leafy greens (salads/kale)
-Fruits are ok, but consider experimenting with less fruit in general. I know, it sounds crazy because fruit is supposed to be good for us- and it can be. Educate yourself on your fav fruits and how many carbs go into your smoothie. They are generally filled with sugar based carbs that can take a lot of exercise to work off. I opt for a nectarine/handful of blueberries twice a week, or add pear to my green veggie juice at home.
-Quality Protein. From my vegetarian standpoint, here is how I get my daily protein.
-Nuts; walnuts, cashews, almonds and seeds such as pumpkin and sunflower.
-Dairy; Greek yogurts and Fage brand are high in protein and contain important flora (good bacteria like Acidophilus) that help the body draw nutrients from the foods you eat, and also aid digestion by helping to keep your BM's regular. We all want that right?
-Black beans, chick peas, lentils, quinoa.
-Greens; have small amounts of protein.
-Cheese; Through my alchemating (being a body alchemist), I have found goat cheese the easiest to digest, personally speaking. Do you have a hard time digesting certain dairy products? I love cheese, but end up bloated and have a hard time digesting it... Until I found goat cheese! Many people with lactose sensitivity have a similar experience in being able to digest it with greater ease. If normal cheese disagrees with you, but you still want the protein hit, try the goat! It is often due to the manufacturing of cow based products that induce allergies.
Eggs; Though I don't eat them straight (like a boiled/scrambled egg). When I do use them in cooking, I go for happy cage free eggs. Note*- Egg whites contain more protein than the yellow.
Avocado- protein central. I eat up to five or six avocados a week when in season.

BURN FAT 

When I arrived back to California after living in Spain, I had gained twenty pounds from my normal and stable weight (where I feel good in my body) of 160 pounds, and weighed 180. After doing research, I found eating a teaspoon of raw coconut butter before each meal raised my metabolism overall and helped to burn fat more rapidly. By adding this to my daily diet, I lost the twenty pounds safely over an eight week period and have not put it back on since. I was doing less exercise at the time, but was watching what I ate. It worked for me, maybe it will work for you too. Here is the brand I recommend- Artisana RAW COCONUT BUTTER $11.99 at Whole foods. I am also showing the Organic Coconut Oil from Trader Joe's it is much less expensive $5.99, and does the same thing, except it is harder for me to literally swallow!- So I go for the BUTTER instead of OIL when I am eating it from the jar. These days I eat it less often, but still include it into my diet. There are infinite benefits from ingesting coconut oil and butter. Like I said, I look forward to sharing more on this later, and always encourage you to do your own research.

Keep Loving your Beautiful Self- Mind, Body & Soul. 
With Love, Love, Love..
Tuesday May





I am not a certified nutritionist, doctor or therapist. 
Please consult your healthcare professional before participating in any
 lifestyle changes you may feel are questionable to your health. 
I am not responsible for any action you resume. You are- Make it pleasurable.
© Tuesday May Thomas 2013

Saturday, July 27, 2013

Chunky Juicy Jelly - INNER THIGH




Chunky Juicy Jelly - INNER THIGH

Gotta love the jiggle-wiggle of the Inner Thigh! I've always had thick inner thighs. As a child my mother told me to rub talcum powder between my legs so they would not chafe. It worked. 

Love your Beautiful Body
Be Patient


At the age of 28 I weighed close to 200lbs. I dropped 60 of it after backpacking in Australia. For once in my life I could see through a gap between my upper legs. Over time I gained weight back, and lost it again several times. This caused many stretch marks in and around my inner thigh area, leaving the skin slack and loose. I never saw that gap again.When I became interested in tightening my derrière, I would stand naked in front of the mirror and pull up my butt cheeks from behind to see what my butt and body might look like. When I pulled up my butt cheeks, as to 'enact' a tighter tush, my inner thighs would disappear. Then I would let my booty slide down and my thighs would wobble together.

Do the Work
Let go of the Old ~ Embrace the New


After a year of incorportaing squats and an arsenal of booty exercises into my weekly workouts, the ass I thought truly had NO HOPE- has started to 'shape'-shift. As my butt has been toning up, I noticed my inner thigh area was not matching the positive results I was seeing from my booty workouts (of which I will share very soon!) I am excited to share one of my favorite inner thigh tighteners.  

Bellydancer Inner Thigh Workout

Next week I will share a delicious Recipe for goat cheese quesadillas plus a tummy workout that really helps to tighten loose- and slack stomach skin. You will need a resistance band to perform the next few exercises I post. If you are in America, you can purchase a resistance band with hand loops for around $5 at TJ MAX or ROSS. Unless you are ready to hit it hard, get a 'medium' tension resistance band. I love the hand loops with cushions on mine. See you soon <3

Much Love and Light
Tuesday May
I am not a certified nutritionist, doctor or therapist. Please consult your healthcare professional before participating in any
 lifestyle changes you may feel are questionable to your health. 
I am not responsible for any action you resume.
© Tuesday May Thomas 2013